10 Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Special
We women are so used to having our men take care of us that we rarely stop to think about them and what they need. You don’t have to wait until Valentine’s Day or Father`s Day to show your husband how much you care.
Since men rarely anticipate these things, simple treats will do! There are countless wonderful ways to break his heart. Including telling him you love him, writing him a love note, and coming up with a homemade gift.
Love is a beautiful feeling. And it is a very important part of any relationship or marriage. The truth is that everyone, no matter what gender they are, wants to feel special and loved.
Although some people will never admit to it, they want to know what it’s like to be loved. If you really want your relationship to be strong and last for a long time, you should be willing to put in some work.
Go an extra mile to make your man feel special. You should realize that your man wants to feel special in your relationship just as much as you do. These feelings don’t depend on who you are!
Just like the saying “It takes two to tango,” a relationship needs work from both sides for it to work out well. The best part is that you don’t have to break your back. Or sell your arm to show your man how much you care about him.
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, we often forget to pause and cherish the people who mean the most to us. Expressing love, appreciation, and admiration for your husband doesn’t always require grand gestures.
Sometimes, small, consistent acts of love can mean the world. There’s nothing wrong with taking care of your husband. So, let’s get going. Here are ten thoughtful ways to make your husband feel special and cherished.
10 Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Special
1. Write Him a Love Letter
In this digital age, handwritten notes hold a unique charm. Take a moment to write down the feelings, memories, and dreams you share. This personal touch will surely bring a smile to his face.
2. Surprise Date Night
Choose an evening, make reservations at his favorite restaurant. Or set up a movie marathon of his preferred films at home. A surprise date night can rekindle the romance and show him he’s on your mind.
3. Listen Actively
In our daily lives, there are always other things to do, and distractions everywhere. Giving someone your full attention is a rare gift.
Don’t talk back when he tells you about his day, his dreams, or his fears. This simple action shows that you care and understand whole heartedly.
4. Cook His Favorite Meal
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Surprise him by preparing his favorite dish. Setting the table, lighting those candles, playing that music he loves, and enjoying a quiet dinner together.
Recently, my husband and I had a joke about how neither of us really has a favorite food. I mean, we love KFC, and fish and chips. But there isn’t just one meal that either of us would say is our absolute favorite.
So, guess what I did? I sent the kids for a sleepover to begin with. I laid that table and set the mood by lighting candles and playing his favorite music.
Then I bought the 10-piece Kentucky Fried Chicken (LOL). With a little wine, the evening was recorded as memorable. You don`t have to bend so much to a point of breaking! Sometimes you just need to be creative.
5. Appreciate Him
Continuous appreciation nurtures trust and mutual respect. It creates a safe space for your partner where he feel seen and valued.
By appreciating him, you’re validating his feelings, thoughts, and actions. It reassures him that his contributions to the relationship and the household are not taken for granted.
Compliment him genuinely, not just in private but in front of family and friends. A little public affirmation boosts confidence and strengthens the bond.
10 Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Special
6. Plan a “Him” Day
On a “Him” Day, do everything you can to make your husband feel special, appreciated, and spoiled.
It’s a chance to show how much you care by planning activities and gestures around what he likes and wants. A successful “Him” Day is ensuring that the day revolves around his passions and interests. Make a list:
- What are his favorite hobbies?
- What activities does he find relaxing or rejuvenating?
- Are there things he’s mentioned wanting to try or places he’s wanted to visit?
Wake him up with breakfast in bed, comprising all his favorite dishes. Write a personalized note or card on the breakfast tray expressing your sentiments to set the tone for the day.
Dedicate an entire day to activities he loves. Whether it’s a day of golfing, a gaming marathon, fishing, or simply lounging with a book. Showing interest in his passions will make him feel cherished.
7. Gifts ‘Just Because’
Even though birthdays and anniversaries are common times to give gifts, giving him a gift “just because” can make his day.
You don`t need to take a loan for it because it doesn’t have to be expensive. A book by his favorite author, or a cool gadget he’s been eyeing. Even a card from the heart will do.
8. Relive Your First Date
When you two were still dating, you were often filled with excitement. Butterflies in the stomach, and intense feelings of connection.
The first date, in many ways, conveys these emotions. Representing the initial spark and curiosity that brought two individuals together.
Reliving your first date is a sweet way to bring back those first feelings. Talk about how far you’ve come, and strengthen the bond you’ve built since then.
Take a trip down memory lane by recreating your first date. Visit the same spots. Wear something that reminds you of that day. And think about the beautiful memories you’ve created since then.
9. Encourage His Dreams
Supporting his aspirations and dreams. Be it a career move, a hobby, or a personal goal, signifies that you believe in him.
Offer encouragement. Be his sounding board, and celebrate his achievements, big or small just celebrate!
10. Physical Affection
One of the most powerful ways couples communicate is through physical touch. Which is often overlooked because it is so subtle.
It shows feelings that words can’t always express. From a soft touch of the hand to a warm embrace. These are the things that make people feel close and connected.
Never underestimate the power of a warm hug, a kiss, or simply holding hands. Physical touch is a potent connector and reinforces emotional intimacy. A surefire way to make your husband feel special and loved.
Conclusion: 10 Ways to Make Your Husband Feel Special
You can arouse these feelings in your man fairly easily. It’s not like rocket science, I mean.
However, it does take some work and dedication on your part. But always keep in mind that a relationship should not be one-sided. Always make sure to check to see if your efforts are being returned in some way.
You don’t have to go big to make your husband feel special. Small acts of love, understanding, and appreciation done over and over again can often make memories.
Memories that last and strengthen your relationship. Love is a journey that never ends. And these actions will make sure that the journey is beautiful, special, and memorable for the person you love.
Be careful not to do too much to make your man feel special, to the point where he feels overwhelmed. Or thinks you’re just trying to get something from him (some women do that).
Give him his own space when he needs it, and don’t pack him in too much. I hope you have learned from this blog and good luck in your love journey.
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